Imagine my surprise when I found out that ancient Roman women wore bikinis! We have paintings and sculptures of the fact, dating back to 5600 BC. Originally they seem to have been "worn" by certain Roman goddesses like Venus and her counterpart the Greek Aphrodite, goddesses of fertility, passion, beauty, and all associated things. However, we have also found actual thongs worn by Roman female athletes. So French designer Louis Reard, who wanted to make a splash, was not really breaking any new ground when he had his first bikini modeled at the Piscine Molitor, a popular pool in Paris. The swimsuit was considered scandalous, which would have suited him fine. In an allusion to the headlines he knew he would make on the fashion scene, he had newspaper type printed on the suit itself. It was a hit, the History Channel tells us, "especially among men." Well, duh.
Now of course, bikinis are mainstream, except, I hope, among Christian women. But my hopes were dashed when one of my sons heard a young woman from church say of men, "If they can't handle it, that's their problem. I will wear my bikini if I want to." And so you will find various articles about modesty that divide themselves into two distinct camps. One addresses the women only, asking them if they believe immodest clothing like bikinis and short shorts and miniskirts really befit a godly woman with a pure heart, and others that spend their time telling women they have an obligation to their brothers in Christ not to cause lust in their hearts. Both sides tend to look with scorn on the other. Yet both sides overlook the fact that modesty in the Bible is always concerned with overdressing, not underdressing. It's about calling undue attention to yourselves with fine clothing, expensive jewelry, and elaborate hairstyles. If we look at the history of the modern bikini, I believe we can see how all of these things apply.
First, revisit the paragraphs above about the motive of the bikini's designer—to cause a splash, to make news. The man actually received 50,000 fan letters. As the years progressed, "bold young women" were the ones who wore them, especially in the conservative decade of the 50s. Does any of that remind you of dressing to be noticed, the true meaning of immodesty? Of course it does. But one should not ignore the heart in this conversation either. Would you answer the door in your underwear? Of course, not, because you know that would be inappropriate, just as you would never undress in front of an open window. Does your bikini cover more or less of you than your underwear?
Second, those 50,000 fan letters? Most were from men! And anyone who scoffs at causing a brother to stumble certainly hasn't read much of the New Testament. Jesus himself says,It is inevitable that temptations to sin will come, but how terrible it will be for the person through whom they come! It would be better for him if a millstone were hung around his neck and he were thrown into the sea...Luke17:1,2.
Yes, there are men who can lust simply because of a pretty face even when the body is covered from neck to toenail, but let's not get ridiculous. Fashion designers know exactly what they are doing when they create their clothes. It's the women who don't seem to get it, and who go right along, allowing those people to move them like a puppeteer. And the only thing that matters to them is what they want and how they feel and how much attention they get. Please tell me that is the character of a disciple of Christ—the Suffering Servant who gave up all for others.
And third, as to the godliness aspect, did you know that Reard had a hard time finding a model who would wear his tiny little bikini? He had to resort to an exotic dancer who didn't mind walking around in public nearly nude—that's what she did every night. He couldn't get a regular model to wear it.
Sometimes we are so busy trying to get our women to dress appropriately that we misuse Scripture. I have seen some interpret passages with all the exegetical acumen of a 2 year old. Words, especially words in an ancient language, are often not exactly what we would think when we see the English translation. "Thigh" for example can be a euphemism for a man's genitals. "Nakedness" can refer to the sexual act itself. Be careful when you try to draw explicit lines for clothing when the clothing mentioned is 1) underwear, 2) for men, not women 3) in particular circumstances and places, and 4) carrying a metaphorical meaning.
What happened in 1946 was not the end of the matter. Reard created a swimsuit with 30 inches of cloth. He said you should be able to pull the two parts through a wedding ring! (Funny how he chose that piece of jewelry.) Nowadays, bikinis have gone much farther and gotten much smaller. Yes, we need to train our young women to be godly and pure. They need to have a healthy respect for their own bodies and not degrade themselves just to get attention. Yes, young men need to understand that God gave them a neck so they could turn their heads—the other way—as they fight off temptation. And let's please use Bible words the way the Bible uses them. If you want a word for wearing something like a bikini, let's call it lasciviousness or lewdness, because that is not only what it is, but what it causes as well.
Remember, 1946 may have been a milestone in fashion, but it was nothing new. In fact, it was over 7000 years late. What this date might truly be is a millstone—something that has caused many to fall into sin, others to be tempted, and yet others to cause division among the Lord's people by setting hard and fast rules that the Bible does not. It is, as it always has been, a matter of the heart first—both godliness and love for your brethren. Then the correct actions should follow.
Women, for their part, should display their beauty by dressing modestly and decently in appropriate clothes, not with elaborate hairstyles or by wearing gold, pearls, or expensive clothes, but through good actions. This is proper for women who claim to revere God1Tim2:9,10
Dene Ward